Life Among the Savages

a thought

I went and set myself up with an Amazon wish list tonight. My birthday is coming up and it will be easier for Ben to just direct people there. I am not hinting for anyone to visit my wishlist. I am just setting up for the next part.

While there, I started looking for wishlists for people that I know. I found some. Some I am unsure of. Some don't exist. Most don't have shipping addresses. Some (Miss Multiple-Personality) have shipping addresses that are two years old and half the country away from where they currently live. Some (Miss Multiple-Personality) have what are obviously toys for their children that were added to the wish list back in 2003. Said children are too old for those toys.

Anywho, I was thinking about how nice it would be for someone to be going about their usual day and then get a nice pick-me-up by receiving an unexpected gift at their door. Courtesy of Amazon and the Postal Service, not me being a stalker. Not something overly pricey, because, hey, I have three kids to feed and clothe and pay for college. It was just a random thought.

Obviously, due to the issues which I stated above, it would be difficult to accomplish this with a lot of you. And then, if I hit a few people, would the ones left out have their feelings hurt?

But I like the thought. And perhaps people should update their wishlists and include shipping addresses. Because I don't keep track of any of that stuff.

by tempe on 4/14/2007 10:58:09 PM, 4 comments

Submitted by julie at 4/15/2007 12:55:34 PM

Submitted by c at 4/16/2007 11:44:15 AM

Amazon keeps shipping addresses on wishlists confidential. I have randomly purchased gifts for people from their wishlists and have always been informed of this during the order process.

Submitted by Tempe at 4/16/2007 9:43:30 PM

I am aware of that. A lot of the lists stated that there was no address and that I could enter one when I purchase. And I don't keep an address book.

Submitted by Pam at 4/27/2007 11:46:25 AM

Comments

#1: I totally agree with not skipping grades. Ben's dad wanted to do that with him and I refused to let it happen. School is about more than academics. There's a lot of social interaction/learning going on, too, that won't happen if you leave your peer group. Ben may disagree but I'd still stand by my decision.
#2: Perhaps she has inherited some of her math challenges from me. God knows what would happen to me without a calculator. Simple addition sometimes alludes me. They make fun of me at work about it. Really.
#3: Never be embarrassed standing up for your kid. How else will you know what's going on?
#4: That's my granddaughter! I brag about her all the time. :)

8/12/2008 10:29:24 PM

I was SO embarrassed.

:P

8/12/2008 9:29:57 PM

I noticed at the campground when she would mention you she called you mom instead or mommy. Shes growning up.

7/5/2008 8:43:06 PM

my gals just finished kindy and could do all of the things you mentioned. not all of the kids in their class could, though. their teacher was fantastic about giving them the appropriate work and even had them in reading groups with 1st grade teachers (separately.) when i taught music, i had kindergartners who didn't know colors and letters when my 18 month olds did. it was wild, but it's proven that if parents don't engage with their kids, they may not know as much. i don't mean flash cards, but answering questions when asked, asking them leading questions about the things around them, and talking about what you are doing step by step while you do it. a lot of parents don't do these things.

6/23/2008 9:55:01 PM

I felt the same way walking through the preschool fair last year. They all told us what their curriculum consisted of as far as preparation for kindergarten and I just kept thinking "My kid can read on a 1st-2nd grade level and you're going to make him sit through learning his letters?" If I were you, I would bring up your concerns with Becca's kindergarten teacher when the time comes, just for your own peace of mind. It sounds like Becca is definitely ahead of the game and it would suck to have her held back by other kids. Most school districts have gifted programs, but they don't start until a year or two later, unfortunately.

Just let the teacher know your concerns and if she can't accommodate Becca's needs, keep climbing the ladder until you find someone who does (principal, superintendent, etc). Just like a learning disabled kid with an IEP, they are legally bound to meet gifted/advanced children's educational needs.

6/6/2008 5:09:35 PM

Not that I'm biased or anything but I think Becca is advanced for five as well. I've been wondering since the kindergarten talk started just what would there for her.
And that back scratching thing? Totally gross and highly inappropriate. But might explain your mindset a bit.

6/6/2008 2:52:47 PM

Okay. The back scratching thing? That's screwed up. I can't imagine rewarding a kid by making them rub on me. Gheez. Also, Dear God. Blegh.

I'm thinking specifically about Meredith here: Although she knows all colors, letters, numbers, shapes, etc., I'm not sure she would be able to go through a magazine and cut out pictures that start with a certain letter. (She is the first to admit that she can't read or write.)

I do think that Becca is advanced for five.

6/6/2008 2:15:26 PM

I’m going around to all the St. Louis area bloggers/freelancers to let them know about our new book by two local authors, the Historic Photos of St. Louis by Jean Gosebrink and Adele Heagney. We’d love to send you a complimentary copy for possible review consideration on your blog of this book. This title is done in a large 10x10 format and all images used are culled from several archives that represent rare or never before seen photos of St. Louis. We’re trying to get the word out to local folks, so I hope you don’t mind me dropping you a line to let you know about our books!

You can find the authors locally at a signing at Barnes & Noble on Ladue Rd from 1-3pm .

Hope to hear from you soon.

Best,
Rachel Joiner
Marketing Manager
rjoiner@turnerpublishing.com
www.turnerpublishing.com

5/9/2008 2:45:27 PM

I'm late to comment, but it's so beautiful! To think that what I'm doing with my socks could be translated into something so gorgeous! It's not for me yet, but something to aspire to. Good Work!!

5/2/2008 11:46:26 PM

So pretty! Love the vampire pose, BTW.

Baby wore his pretty green hat on his first outing to the zoo on Monday. I'll post pictures if I ever get my site fixed.

4/30/2008 6:47:47 AM

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