Not so random thoughts
When someone dies, there will always be regrets. The things you
could have said or done for them. And then I start to think about
how I could do that for all the people around me who are still
here. But how do you do that?
If you know that a specific person's time is limited, you can give them
the time and part of yourself. How would you spread that around
to everyone? How would you have any reserves left for
yourself? And can it be maintained indefinately?
I don't think so. Perhaps this is where people do volunteer
work. Perhaps it helps them somewhat with the thoughts of 'I
could have done this or said that'. I don't know. I'm not
even sure what I am trying to say.
Tempe - I am so sorry that you and your family are experiencing this loss. Even though you said you weren't sure what you were trying to say, you said it very eloquently. You are all in my daily thoughts and prayers.